sonder

noun

Meaning

The profound, often overwhelming realization that every random passerby is living a life as complex and populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, and worries as your own.

Examples

  • I was struck by a sudden moment of sonder while watching the crowded city streets from my office window.
  • The novel captures that fleeting feeling of sonder when the protagonist realizes the background characters have their own internal worlds.

Synonyms: empathy, perspective, introspection, epiphany